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    • alimony and emigration

      Hello, I have to pay alimony forever. I have tried to change that, but my spouse have been diagnosed with MS. The court seem sorry for my spouse. I was married 10 years, and I have been paying alimony for 13. I don’t think is fair, so I am thinking to emigrate somewhere to avoid… Read more »

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    • random avatar SuperDuper
      2 hours, 48 minutes ago
    • Introducing new boyfriend to my girls

      I’ m recently divorced (2/18), but I asked for it in October 2017.  I fell out of love with my husband almost 2 years before that.  My girls are 15 1/2 and 20.  I unexpectedly met someone a couple weeks after I asked my (ex)husband for the divorce.  We instantly clicked.  I initially told him… Read more »

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    • random avatar Beth
      4 hours, 38 minutes ago
    • Here I go again

      Why do I do this to myself? He told me 9 months ago he thought we’d be happier apart. (Not mutual) I was struggling with menopause and empty nest, and I think now he is/was feeling the effects of a midlife crisis. He left for work, reconnected with a woman from his past. Flash forward..they’ve… Read more »

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    • random avatar Amy
      6 days, 7 hours ago
    • IN SHOCK

      My husband been acting weird lately and I ask him if he was ok. He informs me that he a coward and he wrote me a letter.  I waited too read it cause I had to work(and I was so scared) but as soon as I got home I read it. 5 pages of how… Read more »

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    • random avatar Heather
      1 month ago
    • Call for divorce on Valentines Day

      It’s finally happened. after just 4 days shy of our 13th anniversary my wife has asked for separation. Very hard to talk about this but i just don’t know who to talk to or where to talk so was happy to have found this page even though it took me 30-40mins of searching to find…. Read more »

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    • random avatar Nathaniel
      1 month ago
    • Overwhelmed with emotions

      We’ve been together for 11 years, married for almost 6 years. Since the beginning, I’ve always known he was an alcoholic, but he would keep trying to quit, including going to AA meetings. Lately, it’s been getting worse. He drinks heavily (to the point he’s drunk), about once every three months. And afterwards, there seems… Read more »

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    • random avatar Erin
      1 month ago
    • help need

      I am a 41 year man, who is a nice loyal man who was in a 11 year verbally, mentally ,financial abuse relationship with ex. I cooked, clean, did shopping for groceries and work all time. my ex didn’t want to work but spend money on hag bags (channel)/ make up. We slept in same… Read more »

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    • random avatar Steve
      1 month, 1 week ago
    • Dazed and confused

      After being widowed I was the poster child for vulnerable. Then I fell head over heels in love with a monster. Only I didn’t know he was a monster. I really and truly thought this beautiful man was a good man and loved me with all his heart. I thought we were a great love… Read more »

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    • random avatar Willow
      2 months ago
    • Separation Issues

      First off, I’m a 61 year old on disability pay. My wife left me about 3-months ago because of money problems. We had bought a house together with her intentions she would eventually get a job. She’s worked one for about two months before issues always come up while working that always makes her get… Read more »

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    • random avatar Brian
      2 months ago