I have been married for twelve years and my husband is a recovering alcoholic. He has been sober 5 1/2 years. Throughout our marriage we have had horrible communication. I have been resentful for so many things he has done. I know he has always loved me and I continued to push him away and not show him love. Through his sobriety he has really gotten in touch with his feelings. We’ve talked about divorce before but never did anything. Now he said he is done and no longer wants to live like this. I’m regretful for not showing him the love he deserves because of my anger and resentment for so many things. I’ve asked him for another chance to work through this but he said he’s given me years to do that and I’ve never changed. I am regretting my actions over these years and wish I could go back in time and change things.