Marriage is sacred and I really don’t want to give up. However, I work two jobs and seem to spend the majority of my free time cleaning up. It becomes a battle with the kids and my wife to tidy up. I’m really depressed over this helpless and hopeless situation. I question, if the kids and I had are own place would it be tidy. When I lived alone it wasn’t perfect but pretty organized. I’m contemplating separation. It feels like I am not being heard, appreciated or even respected. I don’t know what else to do.