I got dumped after 37 years. He’s a police officer and found what we wives call a badge bunny. He told me he had been planning to leave me for a while but just wasn’t ready and then all of a sudden…ready!. He isn’t with her still (well, I hope not and he tells me he isn’t) because she used him and manipulated him (just like he blamed me for before leaving) she even faked a pregnancy and test and he had to pay for it.
I am devastated because he never let on that things were bad. If I had known, we’d have been in counseling!