I am in a somewhat similar situation. However, my son is only five. I don’t know when it’s going to be the right time to introduce my son to my guy, but he has hinted that he wants to meet him. Truthfully, my divorce isn’t finalized yet, and I sort of feel like it needs to be before I can even fathom them meeting… I know my son would be utterly confused, and his dad very mad. Any advice out there on how and when to introduce new mates to your children so all parties are ready would be appreciated!