My husbad woke up after 20yrs. Crying. Saying he has no joy. He is unhappy & ready to leave. Said its all about him now since the kids are grown. He ACTS like he doesnt care at all. Its sickening and heartbreaking. Only a hand full of ppl knows. He hasnt filed for divorce but i know he is. Said he wants an apartment. Ask me not to contest the divorce. He has spoken to an attorney but said he wants to be with me to help through my surgery. I really dont like him but i love him. My heart and mond hasnt caught up to him yet.