When we go through difficult life events, drafting any kind of plan may be the last thing or our minds, but sitting down and actually writing out a plan is exactly what can provide some comfort in the midst of turmoil. Purposely defining your short and long-term goals and creating a balanced plan to meet…
Going through a divorce is usually challenging and stressful. The level of stress and emotion is exhausting, leaving very little energy to focus on the financial “chores” that need to be dealt with, so that a settlement may finally be reached. Many must muster up the energy and time, to determine what to do with…
When thinking about decorating, redesigning or just updating your space, designing your home is much like designing a relationship. Designers need to listen, question, comprehend and create. If you decide to take on doing the design for yourself here are just a few tips to keep you focused. You may find that design is even…
As I write this, I know that I am going to get a lot of people judging me. But here is my story…. I got married in my early 20’s to a man who was 8 years older than me. He was nice looking, came from a good family and adored me. Was he the…
If someone is considering divorce, it is important to fully understand the different situations and terms that are involved. One question that comes up often is whether or not there is a difference between the terms “legal separation” and “divorce”. Are these simply different ways of saying the same thing, or is there more to…
I was really unhappy in my marriage. I didn’t want to be, but I was. We married in our 20’s and I really thought we would be married forever. I laugh when I think about it… How could I possibly understand in my 20’s what I would really need in a partner in my 30’s,…
Addiction is a very real issue that haunts families in many ways. Alcoholism, drug dependency and gambling are the most common, while sex and digital addiction are also driving couples to divorce. Often, at their wits end, frustrated and desperate spouses will hire lawyers to get protection in court. But litigation, by nature, is an…
Insurance and divorce. How are those two typically uninviting concepts related? Well, you may be surprised to know that in the challenging world, and what sometimes feels like the downward spiral of divorce, an insurance agent can be a beacon of calm, trusted advice and a person that can offer comfort and protection. At a…
My first Mother’s Day as a “divorced” mom is rapidly approaching. To say I am anxious about the day is an understatement. It is my ex’s weekend and so I kindly asked him if I could have the kids on Sunday. He said No! He said that he has a mother and they have a…
Divorce is a challenging process that will force you to deal with some pretty heavy emotions, hard decisions and difficult life changes. Depending on the reason for your divorce, you will also need to hire a few professionals like a lawyer, financial advisor, therapist or even a private investigator. Due to the sensitive nature of…