January 16, 2018
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It’s been a long road, and you are now in this place of upheaval. You and your spouse have decided to end the relationship, or that decision was forced upon you. Amidst the myriad of emotions you are facing, you are wondering what to do next. It’s a scary proposition. Life as you know it…

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January 04, 2018
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With the New Year finally arriving many singles are turning to matchmakers to help them with their love life. With all the dating apps out there why might one hire a professional matchmaker? For starters, all matchmaking clients are screened and approved meaning everyone looks like their photos unlike dating apps where there are several…

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November 30, 2017
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At some point after the divorce, you will start to think about dating again. Your feelings about it will likely be complex and probably all over the map. On a particularly lonely Friday night after a long work week, you might wish for the companionship of another.  On other days, you might feel like the last thing…

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November 24, 2017
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A couple of years ago, a coaching client taught me a new word: Kintsukuroi (golden joinery) also known as Kintsugi (golden repair), which is the Japanese term for art of repairing ceramics with gold. I like the poetry of “there is strength and beauty in the breaks”. Times of adversity are a challenge depending on…

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November 21, 2017
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I am 43 and have been married for 15 years.  We have three children together and are a happy couple.  We have a great life together and I have never contemplated stepping outside my marriage. However I have met someone through work whom I am wildly attracted to.  It was all so innocent in the beginning….

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November 06, 2017
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We are selling our condo.   As part of that process we wanted to get the place cleaned up, decluttered, and ready. Our kitchen floors were what I would call a bit of a mess. The grout in the tile was cracked and dirty. We reached out to one well reputed contractors and asked him to…

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October 31, 2017
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Dan, a motivated and accomplished father in his 40s, reached out to me over a year ago on the recommendation of a fellow coach. He was already divorced a few years earlier but was dealing with ongoing litigation with his ex-partner about financial matters as well as co-parenting issues pertaining to his pre-teen daughter.  His…

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October 28, 2017
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Divorce touches all of our lives, either directly or indirectly. In our very “modern” world, we enact many rituals: those marking birth, graduation, puberty, death, etc., but when we face the profound death of a marriage, we offer no ritual for the divorcing couple to grieve their loss together, no way to say good-bye with…

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