Many of you have been telling us you would prefer to NOT know about your partners’ affair if it only happened one time or was with someone from out of town (never to be seen or heard from again). The sentiment we keep hearing is ….if the affair is purely physical with no emotional attachment – you would rather not know.

We aren’t so sure this always works in a marriage. The cheater usually feels sneaky and suffers from self loathing and the partner that has been cheated on often feels it on some level. Working through an affair can be very tough in both marriage and in divorce. How do you feel about it?
Share your thoughts in our forum or start talking to others going through a divorce in our chat room.

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